Guides to mail people actually open

Everything below is written to be useful whether or not you ever buy anything from us. Where we cite a figure, we link to where it came from; where the honest answer is “it depends”, we say so and explain what it depends on.

What to write

Wording for the letters and cards themselves, by scenario. Written to be copied and changed rather than read.

After a funeral

Written for someone facing a pile of acknowledgement cards. Short is fine, late is fine, and you do not have to send one to everybody.

Still deciding?

If you would rather just ask a person, that works too. Tell us roughly what you are considering and we will give you a straight answer, including if the answer is that this is not right for you.